Keira, her parents Elise and Dave, and her sister Keaton.
“EVEN IN THE WORST OF CIRCUMSTANCES, THERE IS ALWAYS JOY TO BE FOUND.”
– The Esposito Family
KEIRA ESPOSITOCurrent Age: 9 Home State: South Carolina Diagnosis Date: September 23, 2015 Sanfilippo Type: MPS IIIA Parents: Elise and Dave Sibling: Keaton
What it felt like when we learned our child has Sanfilippo Syndrome…
One word — devastating. We felt a tremendous sense of loss and fear and tears poured down our faces. We went through all the questions in our mind that you might expect. How and why could this be happening to us? What did we do wrong to have our child suffer this way? What will we do if our unborn child has this too? What will happen to the plans we had for our family? How could we have never even heard of this disease and how, in this day and age of medicine, could there not even be a treatment option?
Then after the sorrow and pity, we had to snap back to reality. Through no fault of our own, we had to start looking toward our new future and what actions we could realistically take. A whole new set of questions begins to emerge. What research exists and how do we help push it further? Should we start a non-profit or partner with an existing one? What can we do in the near term to help alleviate Keira’s suffering and prolong her life? How do we secure funding for the future medical expenses to come?
We are still working on answering those questions and adjusting to our “new normal.”
What our child enjoys the most is …
Keira is happiest when she is with her dog/partner in crime, Holly. Even mentioning Holly’s name makes her face light up. She absolutely loves seeing her baby sister dance and can’t get enough of watching Dora and Sofia. She always giggles when her classmates and other children are playing, and laughs with delight when she’s running like the wind.
How has Sanfilippo affected our child?
She remains the giggly, happy, social and fun-loving child that we’ve always had, but Sanfilippo has robbed much from her. In the span of about 6 months, she has gone from speaking short full sentences, to a limited number of single words. Previously, she was able to memorize names with exceptional ease and recall, but now cannot remember names of anyone new she meets. Every time we think she cannot possibly be anymore hyperactive or restless, her activity level increases. She continues to have very poor nights of sleep, sometimes being up for several hours, a couple of nights per week. We have not heard her say “I love you” in three months, and we desperately fear we will never hear these words out of her mouth again.
How has Sanfilippo affected our entire family?
We are heartbroken at the idea that our infant daughter could potentially spend a majority of her childhood watching her older sister, whom she’s currently obsessed with and amazed by, lose more skills and suffer in pain before dying as a child. Every day is a challenge – between work, insurance, medical programs, fundraising and a newborn, we barely hold it together. With Keira’s extreme hyperactivity, lack of ability to communicate and her new medical needs, we are carrying a burden and workload more than any family should be faced with. To make matters worse, Sanfilippo doesn’t allow Keira to sleep well either. This means we don’t get any rest or breaks, even during the night.
The hardest part of being a Sanfilippo parent is …
Knowing that an effective treatment or cure is there, and the science is here now, but time and money are getting in the way of bringing these quickly enough to our kids.
The biggest misconception people have about being a Sanfilippo parent is …
That we should be pitied. We don’t need pity, we need your help in getting a cure!
Just because a child doesn’t look “sick,” doesn’t mean they are healthy. Sometimes these invisible illnesses are the worst kinds because everyone assumes that the child is “faking” or that the parents are irresponsible and do not provide any structure or guidance.
If we could tell people just one thing about Sanfilippo Syndrome, it would be …
It’s the worst disease you have never heard of. We never knew something as terrible as this existed and it’s so hard to believe that something as terrible as this exists in the 21st century and that there is still no treatment.
If we could ask just one thing from the world/people, it would be …
We are learning to cherish every moment we have with Keira, and encourage others to do the same with family and friends.
Why are we asking you to donate to Cure Sanfilippo Foundation?
We know there are a lot of great causes and charities in the world worthy of funding. However, the rare disease community by definition is very small and we need all the help we can get. We make every dollar count, so if you are moved by Keira’s story, please consider Cure Sanfilippo Foundation for your charitable giving. They are helping to give Keira, and other children like her, a chance at life.
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Keira continues to be a happy and wonderful child who has no idea of the future she faces. She still enjoys watching Dora the Explorer and spending time with her friends.
She has lost much of her speech and she is extremely restless although she does give us a few moments a day where she seems to be present and able to convey some focus and thought. Her attention span is beyond short and she is not able to spend more than a few seconds on a task. She typically wears through a pair of shoes way before she grows out of them because she is always on the move!
Keira loves having her new sister around and they spend time each day laughing and staring at each other. Unfortunately, Keira is not able to hold her little sister because she can often be too rough and careless since she does not understand the impact her motion has on others. They do love to give each other high fives though, and will sometimes hold hands!
Physically, Keira has only just started to show some symptoms. Her shoulders and one of her ankles are just beginning to tighten up. Her hips and back are now slightly out of alignment. So far it does not seem to cause her much discomfort, but we do not know how much longer that will last. We do know that Keira (like many children with Sanfilippo Syndrome) has a very high pain tolerance, which makes it difficult to know when she is sick or hurting, but which we also know will serve her well in the future as this disease progresses.